Opening a closed mind
I believe we are defined by our actions in life. I think this is why I so enjoy reading biographies; most list the facts and actions taken in their lives. I can disagree with someone in their opinions and wonder why someone has made a certain decision in their lives, but it is hard to argue with the actions someone has taken.
For example, I recently went and saw a relative who likes to talk about the upcoming elections. He is a staunch republican so therefore the thought of Hilary Clinton in the White House sends him into an uproar. I don’t know who I am going to vote for.I don’t vote party lines. But I like to push the envelope sometimes to see what happens.
In my opinion, there are no bad or good politicians. They have to make decisions just like we do. So therefore they are influenced by what is happening at the time just like we are. Therefore they sometimes make decisions that may not seem in the best interest of the people. So I try to take a long look at the candidate and try to see as much of the whole picture as possible.
So when I talk to people such as my relative I always ask, “OK, I know you have listed all these things you don’t like, but what has she done that you do like?” This question sends my relative into a tizzy and I like it. I think it forces him to realize that not one of us is perfect. And usually, by the end of our heated conversations, he has in no way changed his mind, but he has opened it just a little bit. I benefit too because I keep up on the issues and my two girls see that everyone has a voice and should voice it. It’s fun.
October 6th, 2007 at 4:53 am
Thank you for sharing!
June 13th, 2009 at 8:05 pm
Hi, interest post. I’ll write you later about few questions!